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So who’s indecent?
Posted by decem under Family & Friends.
One of the non sequitur event in the newspaper was stating; “wife being punched by a husband resulting from external force and indecent..” So most of the women who reads that will understands the pain of that wife and are mostly tossing curses on that husband. “spilling water on the couch has cause the husband to enraged and causing hurt to her..” Unless that is a couch for the kings and queens, or rather an extremely expensive one made by the skin of a tiger, one might brood over that kinda shitty thingy i ‘d supposed. But who on earth would hit a woman for that?
For that article, i was a little offended not just because i am a man, it’s because the reporter is so exaggerating and so stupid for not hearing the other side of the story. Not only that, it’s also making the world not knowing that my brother did that out of a load of hardships. Even then i think that fractured nose couldn’t even be as hurting as what she did to her own son! My brother son!! Why didn’t the newpaper writes about that as well?
My brother deserved it, serves him right for his wrongdoings i should say. But what about her cruelty? My brother should have shower the boiling water on her too. Kelly’s own mum says she did it on purpose. Which i think it’s rather true to tell from Glen’s condition and i strongly believed it was out of frustration and depression as well. If she is feeling miserable today and since, i will feel sympathized for this undue circumstances. But when i met her after the visit i asked her; “why like this?” Evening at the hospital while she was eating Mac Donald’s she replied; ” like that lo… hot water lo…” Then i was like what the??… So forget it. Just for the better ways to win the case i will tolerate her arrogance first.
Even her younger sister admits Kelly is mentally disordered and which i think is suffering from Munchausen’s syndrome. That now her own blood is flowing through the tubes and smudges the bandage. Monitored by the heartbeat asset, and draining from the tubes through his nostril into his digest system, Glen now is still under the feeding of morphine. Lying there like a doll, crying for mummy mummy, but where is she when he needed her the most? Who knows? Burgerking? Or maybe having a great deal meal at Kentucky Fried Chicken?
My brother is still in the dark about Glen’s situation. He will be serving a long term in jail, gnashing his teeth for the pain of the canes, and ponder the world of freedom and love. How is he going to feel when he knows about this pain he’s son is suffering? What if Glen is discharge and is being adopted by someone else? Will he sees his son again? His laughter, his voice, and his kisses, will he be able to hug him while hearing daddy from him again? He will think and worry about these, and later on he will live a few years inside there in vain without having any hope, no point of looking forward to anything because i believe there’s nothing in his life now which is more important then his lovely child. Freedom wouldn’t be enough, trying to keep his spirits up because there’s no point in grieving.
Isn’t she heartless? My brother now needs to spend another additional 3 months for lodging his assaulting. Even she did say she wants to wait for his return, even she already knew that my brother will be serving long years, she still preferred him to rot inside there for another period of time and pursued his charges. No leniency, no compassion, nothing but ambiguous and indecent.
Poor Glen…
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For a mother not to take ownership of the child she gave birth to is quite rare. I say this because even a stranger would take notice if a child cries too long. In my humble opinion, looking at the child makes her rethink her own mistakes she made in her own life. Ignoring it seems to be her way for of dealing with it. From what was mentioned about not feeding or looking after the house, its just a lack of ownership and responsibility for the “house” that was built together. She doesnt seem to care for anything. Or perhaps, caring about it doesnt even matter. Cause it would fail anyway. Most probably, she had work that never lasted long, studies with poor results, relationships that repeated ended. She has a problem, but she doesnt know how to deal with it. She has no friends, no family, even if she has one, its not one where they take her seriously. People who notice her realise its too late because she has already closed her doors. She has no dreams about the future, more because she dont think it will be bright anyway. Its quite terrible to live without any dreams and ambition. Just imagine what it will be like. My take - Depression
Scenario 1. If she really did intentionally pour the hot scalding water, something in her head tells her to “deal” with the problem, and treating the boy as non-existent doesnt work.
Scenario 2. She is still treating the boy as non-existent and its all an accident.
Either way, she does not have the mental capacity to deal with her own problems ,let alone taking care of a child. She is a child herself.
Thanks for sharing. You’ve got the point and seemed like she only MOPS around the house aimlessly. Life is like this, she may feel good about herself when everyone wants to help, but now is a totally different picture cos no one wants to step in anymore.
Just let her go with her own but believing the boy will not suffer becos he’s under the treatment of the child protection of MCYS.
As a woman point of view, I guess she’s feeling insecurity and desperately needs attention. She has deliberately doing this (pouring hot water to her own son) by venting out her frustration at her son’s father (her husband). When she see her son, he reminds her to her husband. She has lost her mind.
I sincerely hope that Glenn could re-unite with his father when he’s out from jail.
That’s what i hope for as well. She did that whether intentionally or not, she is, however careless and having an improper manner to be called as a mother. She doesn’t know how, she can’t hold and even take full responsibility for anything that matters. Worst still, she still thinks that whatever has happened, is fated..
I don’t think so. BUT I KNOW THAT WHAT’S COMING NEXT WILL SURELY BE GOD’S WILL, AND RETRIBUTION.
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